Stay away from hard positions

Hello my loves! We’re a month closer to summer y’all, and I cannot wait.  I just want to take the time to thank all of you that come back every week to hang with me in this space.  I thank you all for your support and I pray that wherever you are in your process that you’ll find your way to success.  I had to take an ADR course for my program and one of the things we learned about when preparing for mediation is to stay away from hard positions.  The more I thought about it the more I realized how applicable it is to everyday life. Taking hard positions prevents progress, it’s associated with having a fixed mindset.  As we go through our process we need to understand where we are and where we want to end up.  Another thing to be mindful of is, knowing your value.  Not underestimating or overstating your position will help you better prepare for the times when people will try to tell you who you are or what you’re worth.  This week’s midweek tip is, to focus on growth by staying away from hard positions.  As always, thanks for spending some time with me, and keep on keeping on.